Yes, indeed. We have crossed another milestone and she's officially 8 mths' old today!!! Wow, time passed really fast :) Still, i cant wait for her to walk and talk, like my niece now. In case some of you are wondering, yes, she still wakes up at least 3 times at nite. I have learnt not to have any expectation...
Called up kindermusic yesterday. Yes, the kai-su-izm in me are thinking of enrolling her some classes over the weekends. Actually, i think deep down, i jus want to have some programs over the weekends so that i wont feel so tired entertaining her 24 hours. At least i have some distraction for her. :p Dunno y but except for Kindermusic, cant seems to find other classes available for her. In case, some of you scold me abt the KS thingy, fyi, she's put on waiting list for her age-group in all the lessons available over weekend. So obviously, i am already too late....
My younger sis has been contemplating whether to work part-time (not tt she's really on 9-5 timing now) so that she can spend more time with her gal. She's a tutor in a private tuition center. Her working hours are like 4pm - 9pm eg... but 6 days' week. And yet, she complained. Especially my niece is ready for playgroup now which are usually in the mornings, so she's concerned tt her time with her gal is shortened. Unfortunately, i think financially, it will be tight on her family. i told her it's a matter of life-style. My best fren quited her well-paid job to be a stay home mum and her hubby prob earns abt $2.5k - $3k monthly. Yet, they survived. Wat it means = less toys for her child, less clothes for herself and less eating-out. And no more facials, manicure and pedicures of cos!!!! Which my sis is quite ONZ on such things...
I told her tt in my case, i only see my gal not more than 2 hours during the weekdays. I am back at my mum's place abt 7++ pm while my gal is usually sleepy at abt 9++pm. (Mayb tt's y during weekends, i am so uptight abt spending every of her waking moments with her) and yet, staying at home has never crossed my mind. Cos' i always believe in providing best for my gal. In terms of food and future enrichment classes. TT's when my sister tells me tt her priority is different. She rather spend time with her gal physically vs sending her to the best pre-school. While, i think i rather earn $$ and send her to better pre-schools. So am i too mercenary as i prefer to spend $$ to let other pp teach my kid than teaching her myself? Am i really spending too little time on her????
These are the questions tt i've been asking myself everyday.... so this morn, instead of continuing to sleep when she wakes up at 6am (i usually passed to the maid after i feed her and go back to sleep), i woke up and spend at least 30 min with her b4 hubby bring her to my mum's place...
So now, the day has yet to be started and z-monster is attacking me now... ZZZZZ.......