For those who are mothers... one look at this ultra-sound, you will know that my baby has (as expected by my gynae) not turn!!! On ur left is part of the head facing down with the back of the spine showing on the right.. Sigh.... wat to do, guess it's fate. Was joking with my gynae that i want to choose 07.07.07 to perform the c-sec. But as he will be travelling that weekend, he jovially teased me that he can perform the c-sec at 00:07.... hahhaaa...in the end, we told him that we will consult some fengshui master and chose a good date for the birth.. :) Nevertheless, my gynae will still monitor my baby's movement till my next visit in 2 weeks' time but he told me, 90% chance i will need c-sec. Oh yeah, something very funny or shld i be worried? Gynae commented that my baby's head is a bit BIG!!!! Oh dear, how, big head for a gal??? Fabian say, "like me"..... and he also commented that Big head = Big brain.... hahaahaaa...Dun think it's true though... hopefully not too big lah.... worried not pretty leh....
Met my ex-colleagues from Chartered for dinner last nite. It's great catching up with them. Anyway, all of them enjoy my prenatal teacher's analogy abt breastfeeding... so i decided to share this in my blog..... Mrs Wong said, everyone (papa, mama and baby) have a role to play in breast-feeding. Baby plays the role of a worker. Cos' she needs to work for her milk.... then, fathers play the role of CEO... sounds great rite? Dun really have to do "real" work but just have to motivate mothers and workers to make sure everyone is happy.... and in case u havent guess it, mothers are middle-management!!! The one who do the real work, make sure workers are happy and the whole corporation operate smoothly..... Poor me... all the hard work and we are only middle-management... doing all the shit work while CEO get all the credit. What a bad deal!!! :( Oh yeah, these few days, my feet have been swollen like pigs' trotters...looks really funny. My tiny toes on the swollen f
eet. Got a picture for you ;) Did i mention that my maid is here? She came yesterday. Fabian and i are quite apprehensive as we are not use to having a stranger at home. Also, everyone asked me to be strict with her. I even have difficulty asking her to do things liao.. how to be a strict disciplinarian? Anyway we also quite daring... we left her alone at home last nite while i went out to meet my frens for dinner while Fabian went his dad's place to resolve some PC issue.... but so far, she's pretty alright. Hopefully, she will stay like tt.....
But with the maid here, Fabian and i began to have some conflicts. And it's all abt clearing the storeroom downstairs for the maid. Was hoping tt Fabian will do so this weekend so that the maid will have her own room and she wont need to sleep in the living room.... but he complained that i demand his weekend time too much... and he dun have time to do his own things. This really pissed me off as he volunteered to clear the storeroom since a very long while ago. Yet havent get it done yet. Also, i need him to do up the ikea's cabinet which we bought for baby's clothes. As mentioned, i have many hand-me-downs from frens and family. But till now, we havent plan to wash these clothes yet cos' the cabinet is not ready. Even if baby's clothes are washed, we dun have a storage space for them. There are so many things to do b4 the baby comes (which can be as early as in 3 weeks' time since i am almost 35 weeks now) ... the cot's bedding and bedsheets still not wash too ... :( I also feel very emotional abt it cos' i feel that if he is so particular abt having his own weekend time now, would he complain when baby comes and again, his weekends will be burnt? Am i the only one expected to sacrifice my time? Anyway, i was so upset with him that i packed the storeroom all by myself with the help of the maid of cos' this afternoon. So angry with him. If i can do it, i will also dismantled the shelves and do up the cabinet!! Huh!! And not a word of thanks from him, except an irritated look tt things are not done in his way!! i hate it when he keep delaying the tasks and when other pp do it for him, he will complain it is not up to his std! @#$%^ So frustrating!! Errrr!!!! :(
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