Gathering

There is this group of frens that i keep in constant contact and we tried to meet up once a mth, if not once every 2 mths to catch up especially one of us have a young bb. So last Sun, we did it again. We had potluck at a fren's place that is very near to Pasir Ris Park and we were hoping that we can go to the park with the kids. But recently the weather in Singapore is crazy. It's so HOT!!!! So of cos' it didnt happen as we laze ard after food and try to chase after our kids.

I tried to catch up as much as possible but it's pretty tough and i think mayb it's easier for just the gals to meet up over dinner and tea without the kids next time so that we can have a proper catch up session. There's so much happenings among 6 of us. One got a new place; one got a new baby (k, 4 mths is not so new anymore), one is just pregnant and the other one is trying (i think) and as for me, i am still trying to cope with my new role in office and learning how to let go.

Meaning, Athena will run to my maid and call her "mamaa".... sad rite? But i tried to comfort myself that mayb she associate the role of my maid during weekdays as what a mummy will do. Which is not exactly wrong. And given the fact that she cannot pronounce "auntie" yet, she prob blurt out one of the few words that she knows. That's wat i am hoping. Sigh...... else guilt will eat me alive!

And, she had another accident that day. She pooed at my fren's place and i decided to give her a quick shower. Big mistake. Just when we are done, i turned to take the towel and kids, being kids, she tried to play with the water on the floor and right before my eyes, she slipped and fell on her head !!!! You can imagine how hard and long she cried on tt. Luckily, there's no "ba-lu-ku" . Still, i was pretty worried and whole day, i was keeping tabs on her behaviour. The usual lah, whether she behaved differently or she puke or any possible signs that she may have a head concussion after the fall. Luckily all is well. What a scare!